As some of my friends and family knows Lyndsee has had one more ride since she has been born. First off she was born blue since the cord was wrapped around her neck twice, they called in several people to be prepared for her and they worked on her and after what seemed like forever I finally got to hold my baby girl. All was well with life since I had my two beautiful daughters with me at home until…..
Around two months of age, we had to rush Lyndsee to the ER. She couldn't catch her breath and it was just awful having to to see her like this. She was diagnosed with RSV and stayed 7 days in the hospital in an oxygen tent. One of the scariest times of my life and you better believe this mom was right there in the tent with her ;).
Well ever since then she has had asthma problems and had to be on the breathing machine much of her life. I felt like she could never catch a break until fast forward we made our big move to Florida. I am proud to say she has not had one asthma attack since our move 2.5 months ago. Praise the LORD! Instead she has started having these severe stomach cramps, that is awful to watch. She clinches up into a ball and holds onto whatever she can find the fastest and shakes. It really scares us seeing her like this and I make sure I am right there with her ever step of the way to get her through the pain. It really brings Scott and I to tears seeing her like this. I took her into the doctor last week and she immediately said we needed to get a good allergist and asthma dr here in Florida to take over with Lyndsee's care.
We had our visit today and I really learned a lot of information. She was telling me as far as Lyndsee's asthma goes, she was in what they call the honeymoon period. It is where asthma patients move to a new environment and their immune system has to get use to the surroundings. It usually takes about three months until their system gets caught up which means honeymoon period where everything is all good and well ;). She said October season here starts the bad allergy/asthma season so we want to be prepared. She also put a light up Lyndsee's nose and seen it was really inflamed. She listened to her lungs and she has said right now Lyndsee is considered mild asthma but not to count our blessings too early. We are starting her back on the pulmnicort twice a day and the nasal spray to relieve the inflammation. The pulmnicort suppose to help prevent the onset of asthma attacks since we are coming up on our end of the honeymoon period and also busy allergy/asthma season. I am thankful Lyndsee takes the breathing machine like a pro, but I guess since it has been a part of her life since she was 2 months old she is just use to it :(.
Now the part came in where we talked about her awful stomach cramps. She really thinks that Lyndsee is experiencing reactions to food allergies. Lyndsee did have food allergies as an infant, but when I weaned her at 18 months I started reintroducing foods back into her system. I guess that was the wrong thing to do, but I honestly didn't know. So for four weeks she cannot have dairy, peanuts, shellfish, or citrus foods. Oh boy! My child loves milk and she loves peanut butter so I am going to try and find alternatives for her. After the four weeks we are going back in for a skin test. She is going to test her for environmental and food allergies so we can figure out what is making these severe stomach cramps. I am to keep a food log too for when she has the cramps, I need to write down what she just had to eat. Her pediatrician told me to stop diary and peanuts last week so we are on day four right now without these things and today I am proud to say she has only had two episodes of the severe cramps, versus yesterday where she was still experiencing about 2 and 3 epidsodes a hour so I'm hoping the dairy and peanuts are getting out of her system. I so hope this is all it is and it can be fixed even though Jen is going to have to get creative with food since Lyndsee is so darn picky with what she eats. This is a child that would not eat any foods at all until I weaned her at 18 months. She refused all baby foods, anything, it was all mommy milk.
They have scheduled an Upper GI for this coming up Monday Morning to make sure there is nothing else too causing the stomach cramps. I'm praying there is nothing else involved!
Now the biggie… I blogged about this a few weeks ago. Read here about where I was talking about her cafe au lait marks. Lyndsee has had these since she was born but they are now multiplying and getting larger. It seems that if there are 6 or less there should be no problems. Right now Lyndsee has 9 including a very big one reaching from her shoulder to her elbow. This is a marker for neurofibromatosis. I really need to stay off the internet reading about that, because its always negative news online. We are seeing a specialist this Thursday for this and then seeing a geneticist in November. That is the fastest they could get us in. Sometimes I just sit at the computer and cry when I read stuff about the neurofibromatosis. Lyndsee's pediatrician told me last night, Jen stay off the internet from reading right now. It's only going to scare you more. I just can't stop though. It scares me to think Lyndsee may have this and what it means for her. This is coming from the worry wart Jen! Anyways I am going to try and not read anymore about it online and let the specialists do what they do best, but I do like to go in with some kind of information so I'm not going in blind with no knowledge at all. The pediatrician has really been helpful with all our questions and telling us more information about the neurofibromatosis. She is making sure we see all the right specialists in order to get a correct diagnosis.
Anyways it has helped typing all this out. I know it is long but you can see where my mind has been for the last couple weeks. My girls ARE MY WORLD and I try to be the best mom ever and make sure I am doing all the right steps for them, but sometimes its hard not to question myself if I am actually doing good enough!
If anyone has any information on any of these topics discussed today, I would love to hear feedback!
Val says
Hi Jen! I don’t really know anything about any of the things Lyndsee is experiencing and being tested for. I can’t imagine how hard it would be to keep her from dairy and the like during the 4 weeks, but YOU CAN DO IT. Silk Soymilk . . .mmmmm. . . that stuff is GOOD! The chocolate is my fave. Try it 🙂 There are also alternatives to peanut butter. Do you have an organic food store near you or a good grocery store with one in it. Maybe something like that can keep her happy.
Do not underestimate yourself as a mother. I know we all do, but that’s where friends come in who tell you to KEEP YOUR CHIN UP and tell yourself OUTLOUD that you ARE a great mother . . . a perfectly superb one . . . one that cannot get any better! You do great, I just know it. We see our kids “fail” or what we think is “fail” and then that brings us down and we see fault in ourselves. Just know that NONE OF THIS is your fault or has anything to do with you! It’s just the person she is and YOU were made to be this wonderful mommy to this wonderful little girl. You know, I know, that no other mommy could love her and care for her like you do. Just take a deep deep breath. It will get better and her tests will all be fine. If they’re not, well, you deal with that then and lean on friends and family. But in the meantime, stay off the internet. It really does freak you out. I’ve learned that, too, but have especially FINALLY learned to just not google ANYTHING medical-related. It’s therapeutic not to!
(((((great big hugs!!)))))
Val
casual friday everyday says
oh girl, i wish you’d get on the IM…it’s too late for me to call you now. i’ll try to phone you tomorrow….
Tiffany@naturemoms.com says
Hugs Mama! I don’t have any info about the stuff you mentioned. I can just sympathize. When my last kiddo was born the hospital wrote me a letter to tell his newborn screening showed he had tested psotive for a serious birth defect. I looked it up online and it told me that most kids with never live past 2 years old. I was horrified and beside myself. He is fine…never had the defect…argh! BUT I know what it is like to be wondering and researching and finding bad news online. Hang in there.
Deb - Mom of 3 Girls says
Oh my, poor Lyndsee! I really hope that she can come through this asthma season ok and you can get some answers about the cramps. Two or three AN HOUR? The poor thing… I don’t know anything about neurofibromatosis, but I hope you can get some answers soon and that everything turns out ok for her. Hugs…
LaTara Ham-Ying says
You know Jen I feel ya! Sometimes you feel like there is nothing you can do. But you know something that I have learned in my many years of parenting is that we can’t do it all but God surely can.
You tell Lyndsee that I am praying for her and I have no doubt that she will be alright 😉
Carrie says
Hey Jen, you said:
“This is a child that would not eat any foods at all until I weaned her at 18 months. She refused all baby foods, anything, it was all mommy milk.”
Did you know that kids who refuse solids are often allergic? That would be a strong sign right there… so it’s smart that you and the Docs are looking in that direction. I’m surprised they didn’t tell you to take her off soy too, it’s one of the top 3 allergens.
MIchelle says
HI
I have NF as do two of my 3 kids. A great site is ctf.org.
. Many of the kids on the board DO indeed have serious problems. I guess because we need more support we are there more. However, MOST people go a life time without SERIOUS problems due to NF. But we do need to be monitored.
Please feel free to email me anytime
Michelle
MIchelle says
I forgot to mention you probably will want to go to an NF clinic. Many doctors do NOT know enough about NF to truely take care of our kids. And not to scare you but if she is having stomache cramps she may need an MRI or Cscan.
Just to rule things out. OUr kds can NOT be treat as “normal” kids, at least were medical stuff is concerned. Not everything is NF relatated but NF certainly needs to be looked at for a possible cause.
Hugs
Michelle
Virginia says
((HUGS)), Jen! You are dealing with so much right now! I’m keeping Lyndsey in my thoughts and prayers that this all will turn out to be nothing major. Thanks for the link to your blog so that I can keep up with what’s going on with you and the girls!! ((HUGS))
Christina says
Jen,
I hope you get some answers soon. Not to add more to your worrying, but ask your doctor about celiac disease. That’s the first thing I thought of when you mentioned the stomach cramps. It’s a gluten and wheat intolerance. It can be treated simply with a change in diet but may require more testing.
Good luck.
Vivian says
Hi, I was surfing the web for information about moving to Florida due to asthma. My son developed acute symptons starting this year (he just turned 5). I have been considering allergy shots. A friend of mine did the allergy shots for her son who has not had an attack since he was 2 (he is 5). I thought moving to FL is a good solution for my son’s allergy problem because he never had any problem when we went there….. Now I realize it might be the honeymoon period your allergist talked about.